nothing witty im tired dammit
@ 3:12 am on 26 August 03
I decided to stop being a procrastinating bitch. I went out to my folks so I could take those pics of dad's 76 Trans AM remains. Damn, I miss that car. Even the parts. Yes, indeedy I do. lol
I dont have much to say tonight, being tired does that to ya I suppose. I got some interesting opinions on my 2 thought provoking questions, so Im gonna share 6 of em with ya because some are awesomely (is that a word?) answered and others were just damn funny. Read on my dears....
Anthony says:
"I guess it just kind of happens, I suppose getting the nerve to tell a girl that is hard as hell cause if I do love them I am always afraid to scare them off. Telling someone that is the biggest gamble there is for me so it usually takes me awhile being with a person to tell them something like that cause ya know I dont want it to be lust I want it to be true love.
I guess I would base that off of how comfortable I am with a person and how good we click and if I trust this person that is the most important element I suppose in a relationship...."
Beautifully put. I do agree with some of those things mentioned.
Monica says:
"Sometimes it just comes out with a thought and thats what makes love exciting.
Usually you base the I love you off of a moment you have with the person. Its a look in the eye of you both, a touch, or sometimes something said. Its just a spur of the moment kind of thing...."
Wonderful... I agree with some of that as well.
Anth says:
"As soon as your ready you just tell them and base it off of gut instinct...."
Ahh, so brief. But yeah I think gut instinct plays a role too. If it feels right, it should be said.
Dutchies says:
"I guess thats different for everybody, depends on how you feel and if you really love them...."
True. Very important.
Im done sharing cause I dont want to write too much more lol but anyways, heres my opinion on it:
Im not really sure. Its definetly a feeling you have, like a butterflies-in-the-stomach/gut instinct/i cant live w/out this person kinda feeling.... I think various things may make a person want to say it after afew days or acpl weeks, just depending on the situation & the couple... love & lust are hard to tell apart cause sometimes they feel the same.
Maybe you tell a person you love them when theyre constantly on your mind & in your thoughts... like you find yourself wondering "what if" something happened to this person and i never said it?
And i suppose it could be based off like what I mentioned up above. I think communication and a strong connection help too cause you dont wanna say it and than maybe acpl weeks down the road for whatever reasons you dont feel the same. Sayin I love you to a person shouldnt be words you casually toss around. You should say it if you feel it for that person and truly mean it with everything that is you.....
Tonights questions are:
Do you believe in GOD?
Why or why not?
Has your faith made you a stronger person?
And do you have any story where youve been saved or had a guardian angel present?
Alright kiddies, Im out of here.
Sweetest dreams. My Loves.
.Kiss.
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