fucked up weekend!
@ 11:50 pm on 21 September 2008
*sigh*
What was supposed to be fun over the weekend has been nothing short of a disaster...
The boy, myself, our 2 kids and my daughters friend all headed to the festival. It was supposed to be a day of fun. Couldnt have been further from the truth. Heres what really happened:
1. Upon leaving the house the boy decided we dont need to stop at the bank because surely there will be an ATM machine.
2. When we got to the festival and were looking for a place to park and I suggested a couple, I got my head practically snapped off and that I shouldve drove.
3. We finally find a spot, walk about a 1/2 mile and we split up. The girls do their thing and we do ours. I ask Anthony where do you want to go or look at? I get my head snapped off because he doesnt care. So, we wander up and down the aisles looking at things we could buy from the various vendors. I mention we shouldve stopped at the bank because its hot and Im thirsty. Anthony agrees and hes thirsty, too. We goto find the girls and stumble upon them at the rides.
4. Anthony gets all pissed off because were standing around and debating what to do about the lack of cash and no ATM.
5. Finally its suggested that we should walk back to the car after just being there for 20 minutes to go and get some money. Anthony insists that we all tag-along and I think its a dumb idea.
6. Anthony decides to go back to the car or home because hes so mad because I say I dont want to go back to the car with him. They begin to walk away from me and my son but dont say where theyre going.
7. I finally get a call on my cell from my daughter saying they've decided to go with Anthony back to the car and they'll be back a little later when they've got some money. This pisses me off because now Im at the festival by myself.
8. I decide fuck this Im walking back to the house. The festival along with Anthony can kiss my ass.
9. I get another call on my cell saying why am I being such a bitch and leaving the festival. I mention because I was left there until theyre return.
10. I start walking over the mile its going to take me.
11. More calls to my cell about how he doesnt want to go back to the festival without me. Tough shit. He also wants to know where Im at walking so he can come pick me up. I tell him to kiss my ass and leave me alone because I dont want him picking me up. We go around on this topic for 5 mins before I ultimately get pissed and hang up on him. I make it back to the house in record time. I even beat them home. My son and I head towards our backyard so he can play.
12. Anthony calls me again saying come on lets go back to the festival, he isnt even aware Im home as is he, he asks me where Im at and I simply say, somewhere. I refuse to go back and my daughters friend heads home. Needless to say my daughter is pissed because weve ruined her day.
13. I apologize to my daughter for partially acting childish, Anthony does the same. She heads back to the festival with her friends.
That was all on Saturday. Now today (Sunday) rolls around and we had decided we were going to give the festival another shot because I was dying to see the car show and I wanted a funnel cake.
This day didnt go much better. We had to go pick up our daughter from her friends house and I told Anthony to grab the stroller for our son because the night before he said going back was cool and he knew I wanted to see the car show.
We'll that, going back to the festival starts a fight. He doesnt want to go back because he wants to head to the next town over to get a couple things. I get mad. Than our daughter asks why arent we going to the festival, I let her know dad doesnt want to. She makes a couple shitty comments and he feels bad and decides, ok well goto the festival.
We look for a parking spot, once again I offer a couple suggestions and he gets pissed yelling to me that I shouldve drove. He gets pissed and decides were going to the next town over instead.... figures.
So, Im pretty pissed for the rest of the day. As usual if its something that interests me, tough shit.
We waste the day in the other town doing jack shit and come back home to do some grocery shopping.
Later tonight I had asked Anthony to help me change the rabbits litter but he wouldnt do that. Figures.
I asked him to give our son a bath but he "didnt feel like it". Instead, while I gave our son a bath he opted to watch cartoons and fall asleep on the couch and than when he finally wakes up (2 hours later) he wants to know why Im pissed!! *beyond fuming*
Seriously, is he that FUCKING clueless?
So, yeah. My weekend was shit. And Im so sick of "I work 12 hours shifts, all you do is watch our son". Yeah, all I do is clean, cook, watch our son, do the grocery shopping, take myself and our kids to appointments, get 5 hours of sleep a night (if Im lucky), pick up after everyone, try to find time to take a simple shower and this is 24/7, 365.
Even when Im sick no one cuts me any slack. But, yes.... I mean this is all I do. Its not like, you know... working a real job. UGH.
Anyways. Im closing. Im still beyond pissed.
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